Sometimes, You Just Have To… (oneword365)

Sometimes you just have to give up that nap.

Sometimes you just have to wake up and not hit snooze.

Sometimes you just have to be on your kids all of the time, so they will be humans that people will want to be around.

Sometimes you just need to sit yourself down, and write.

For the past couple of years, I have participated in OneWord365. Instead of several resolutions, that may or may not be around after a couple of months, you choose one word as your “theme” for the year. Two years ago it was CREATE. Last year my word was WORK. I know, some people (hi mom) think I work too much. Some people don’t think I work enough. I am not sure how I feel about it, honestly. I am one of those people who think about how others think about me, and that is part of my motivation of doing anything. Good or bad, there it is…that is what motivates me. This year I just concentrated on doing the things that I needed to do well, and not be lazy about them. I also tried to not be motivated by what others thought of me.  I was successful in some things, in other areas, I still need some work!

For example, this year our set designs for church and our TV program have been pretty successful. I am proud of the work we accomplished and the organization (SO MUCH DATA INFORMATION) that has started. Do I need to still work on that? YES. I am not good at organization. I am a hoarder of terabytes of data. I suffer from the “what ifs…” If I delete this, what if it is needed 2 years from now? So I just hoard the hard drive space and drive my coworkers (and IT staff) crazy. But…in my defense…there have been times when I looked for something and found out it had been deleted.

Work…on learning how to play piano better. Work on practicing. This one has been pretty fun! And challenging…but SO rewarding!

Raising kids is also work. There are days when I want to just lay down and sleep…and let the boys rule (destroy) the house. There might have been a few days of this happening, but, it takes work (all of the time) to teach them that when we go to someone else’s house, the boys for the most part, are to be respectful and helpful. This past weekend at my mom’s house was pretty evident that the work is paying off… 10887209_10152473687546196_2133542400710887303_o

My teaching job has been particularly challenging. For my “work” I needed to choose and order music quicker and start the practicing/learning process earlier so they had more time to have a successful concert. Music was chosen and purchased earlier than I have ever done! It’s a young bunch of students so I have a lot more work to do…Learning how to motivate/discipline/inspire this generation seems to be more work than I anticipated!


This leads up to (if you have stayed with me this long) my word for next year.


I have been challenged to make more of an effort in the things I am doing. I am a bit more organized in my work and home areas. Great! Now I need to make more of an effort to do things well.

Make an effort to plan ahead.

Make an effort to clean.

Make an effort to focus on God’s word.

Make an effort to exercise and eat right.

Make an effort to follow through on the chore chart.

Make an effort to read more.

Make an effort with friends (this one is big for me).


Make an effort to write thank you notes, call friends, visit family.

Make an effort to have friends over.


Make an effort to make my kids practice their instruments. OY VEY.


We are all busy in our days. Our kids, husbands, church friends and work take a lot out of us. And I think (contrary to popular thought these days) that is GOOD. Yes, spending time at home is wanted, and needed and required. So, when I am at home, make an effort to engage with my kids and husband. NOT turn on the TV/phone/internet. What is the point of being home with my kids if they are in one room watching TV while I am in another watching TV? I am not saying NO TV. I just need to make an effort to use the time I have with my kids and not opt for the easiest thing (find a movie to watch) as opposed to something else (play a game or read with them).

Make an effort to teach the boys discipline with their homework.

Make an effort to write more. Blog, email, write music.

Make an effort to figure out my amazing new keyboard.


I think you get the picture.

It seems like a big list…and it is. But making an effort in all of these things will make my life, my family’s, and my church better. To me, that is what it is all about. My life as a sacrifice to my Jesus. How could I not make an effort?

Titus is one!

My dear sweet Titus,
You are a complete joy in my life. You have the greatest smile and mostly a pretty laid back personality.

You love to play by yourself and can entertain yourself pretty well, too. You are truly amazing. I love to watch you think. You will get something in your hands and try to figure it out…how to make it go, how to put it together…sometimes I wonder if you are trying to figure out HOW it works…Kymm thought you had an engineering mind…I am pretty sure she is right!

You are walking already! You started walking at the end of March and you haven’t looked back. It is challenging to keep up with you! There is a little bit of a temper we see now and then, but for the most part you are so happy.

I love it that you are trying to talk so much. Everything is pretty much babble with TONS of inflection, like you know what you are saying…then you end it with “mama?”

You are a great sleeper! You prefer to move to get ready to sleep around 7:30PM or so. THAT is great! You take your last bottle, don’t fall asleep drinking it, and into bed you go! You smile up at me with sleepy eyes, roll over, let me cover you up and you are OUT. Again, you sleep most mornings until 8:00 AM! There are occasional days where 6-7AM is also a possibility, but you generally are great!

You are attached to mommy right now…personally, I love it, but sometimes it isn’t a great thing when I have to get work done and you need to stay at the daycare! This too shall pass…

You love love love to point. You have been pointing for months, but now you add your babbling to it. So cute. Today you got in the car seat and started pointing to Noah’s seat and babbled. You wanted to know where big brother was and you were not satisfied with my answer! You are also Lance’s biggest fan. When he walks into the room, you can forget about me!

You are an eater. Cheeseburgers are your favorite. I have tried to give you chicken nuggets, but they always end up on the floor. Your next favorite food? Spaghetti! You love eating it and making a mess with it.

You are pretty content to play by yourself. You wander around the toys and pick something up and play with it, then move on to something else…you have done this since a very young age. I am pretty amazed by this! I can leave you in your crib and you play in there, too! Just babbling away and pushing buttons on whatever toy I have put in there.

Titus, you are a joy and a treasure and I couldn’t imagine my life without you! You have the most beautiful blue eyes and the roundest face. I love you with all of my heart. Thank you Jesus for this true gift. Help Daniel and I to raise Titus to be a man of God that will stand in this difficult world we live in. Help him to lead others to you…to have a kind servant’s heart like his daddy. Take his strong will and let him use that to your Glory.